What is healing?
Healing is more than just about maintaining a positive state of physical wellness. Healing encompasses the four major forces that comprise our existence: physical, emotional, mental and spiritual. If one or more of these areas is not functioning optimally, then we are in need of healing to bring those forces back into balance. We can be physically healthy but if our relationships with others are rife with conflict, we are in need of healing. Conversely, we can be physically compromised in some way, but if we have accepted that state and embraced a new way of living, we can consider ourselves to be healing because we are not rejecting what is physically not “working” but rather, seeing it as an integral aspect of what makes us who we are.
Still here, still healing
Ram Dass, in his book, Still Here, speaks with honesty and grace about experiencing, rejecting and then eventually coming to terms with his physical limitations following a stroke. A well-respected spiritual teacher, he traveled the world giving talks and doing workshops, and was an avid golf player. He talks about the effect that the stroke had on him and how he eventually made the shift towards a state of healing by accepting that his life had fundamentally changed and resisting the temptation to manifest his symptoms within his identity: “After any major physical “insult,” as they call it, it’s all too easy to see yourself as a collection of symptoms rather than as a total human being, including your spirit – and thus to become your illness…Healing is not the same as curing, after all; healing does not mean going back to the way things were before, but rather allowing what is now to move us closer to God.”
Barriers to Controlled Eating Technique healing
Why is it that we sometimes don’t heal as we should? How does a simple injury or illness suddenly rage out of control, spinning off new chronic conditions and wearing down the body? Why do some people, after going through a difficult phase in their life, have trouble moving forward?
Sometimes we don’t heal because medicine or counseling can only treat one aspect of the problem we’re experiencing. People who are chronically sick may need to make lifestyle changes – dietary modifications, some form of exercise, stress reduction techniques or set healthy boundaries in their relationships with others – in order to see a major shift in their overall quality of their health.
People who have experienced trauma often continue to manifest symptoms in their bodies long after the event occurred because on an emotional or spiritual level, the wound is still raw. A study published in the January 2009 issue of Archives of General Psychiatry has shown that children who were traumatized by some form of physical or emotional abuse are more likely to develop chronic fatigue syndrome (CFS) as adults. There may be other reasons adults develop CFS, including environmental triggers or an inflammatory response that went haywire (again, also traumas of their own) but it’s important to note that unresolved deep traumas do continue to play out in our lives long after the event has passed. Even if we do acknowledge those traumas, we may not have fully integrated the experience so that deep healing can occur. Depending on the nature of the trauma, it can take time, commitment and one or more approaches to facilitate the healing process.
Sometimes people do not heal because they are resistant in some way. Either they have received so much negative reinforcement about being sick in the form of attention – from doctors, family or other caregivers – that they have trouble letting go psychologically of their identity as a “sick” person. Other reasons people do not heal is because on some level, they don’t believe they are worthy of being well. If they suffer from low self-esteem or were made to feel at some point in their life that they do not deserve to be happy or have good things happen to them, it can be difficult to let go of negative mental conditioning that allows illness to manifest and take residence. These are not “bad” or “messed-up” people. They have just been conditioned for a long time to believe and integrate their experiences in these ways, and healing cannot begin to occur until they recognize those patterns and process them differently.
What’s in your healing tool kit?
Embarking on a wellness journey can bring great gifts in the form of supportive practices and resources to draw on during the healing process and facilitate positive change. Often, it is not one single treatment or approach that does the trick but rather, a combination of two or more things that spark a noticeable change. I call this the “healing tool kit” and I encourage my clients to seek out and utilize several different things that feel right and improve their well-being.
What can be especially helpful are finding practices that help remain centered during difficult times. Meditation, yoga, visualizations, affirmations, mindful movement (Tai Chi, walking in a labyrinth or peaceful space) and energy healing are all great ways to tune into the body’s messages and dial down reactivity. These will, in turn, lower anxiety, stress and physical discomfort. Try one or even several practices and see how they fit together. Be open to experimenting. Some people have difficulty sitting still for meditation, but find joyfulness in a chanting or prayer practice. Others find that a yoga class that is slower-paced and emphasizes breath work is more comfortable for them than an energetic asana flow. Be creative in how you incorporate practices and go with what feels right to you. I often incorporate Reiki into my sitting meditation and yoga practices because it fits in well with the contemplative nature of these activities.
It is also useful to find a combination of therapeutic approaches for dealing with stress or managing acute or chronic health conditions. Team with your doctor to incorporate a mix of allopathic and complementary or alternative treatments to help improve your well-being and manage symptoms. A number of clients who see me for Reiki List Of Global Threats treatments or life coaching are also receiving chiropractic, acupuncture, massage therapy, hypnotherapy and standard medical care. People who feel like they have some control over how they are dealing with and treating their chronic health conditions will experience greater relief from symptoms and improved quality of life.
Know that you are your own best healer and that although the practices and therapies are out there to assist you, the enabler for change already exists inside of you. Build your healing tool kit to help give you a solid foundation to help keep you centered and grounded. Most importantly, give yourself permission to let go of incorrect, outdated or negative beliefs about who you are. Name them, and gently release them with the intent that you are welcoming and nurturing only those beliefs that serve your higher good. As part of that process, find time daily to serve yourself a helping of love, forgiveness and compassion. With these approaches, you will soon find yourself in the midst of a transformative journey to healing the whole self.It appears that your web host has disabled all functions for handling remote pages and as a result the BackLinks software will not function on your web page. Please contact your web host for more information.
What is healing?